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Merik Castro took on a local school board in 2011, then set his sights on the Arizona School Board Association. PLUS: More stories about youth in 2011.

By Glenn Gullickson

Wigwam Creek

Wigwam Creek

Youth Progress

Merik Castro got out of a school where he was bullied, then took on his local school district

After transferring schools and taking on a local school board, a 14-year-old is urging the Arizona School Board Association to revise its policies regarding LGBT students.

Merik Castro said that the state organization's non-discrimination policy uses the term "sexual preference." He'd like to see that changed to "sexual orientation."

"Sexual preference suggests that being LGBT is a choice," Merik said. "Sexual orientation correctly describes LGBT for what it is."

Merik made news this year when he had problems with at the Wigwam Creek Middle School in Litchfield and sought the help of Caleb Laieski.

"He's helped so much," Merik said of Laieski. "I'm out thanks to him."

Merik said his issues started as far back as pre-school. "I've always had more friends who were girls, so I got teased a lot," he said.

At school, Merik said he's been called names, punched, pushed into lockers and even harassed by a teacher without protections from administrators.

Things came to a head in the seventh grade in 2010 when for a school assignment Merik turned in a suicide note that mentioned his problems with bullying. That earned him a trip to the vice principal's office.

Merik said he found Laieski's profile on a Trevor Project website and asked the older youth for help. In March, Laieski wrote to the school, with copies to the media, putting the school on notice against bullying. In the hubbub that followed Merik said the school outed him, forcing him to come out to his mother.

"It's better to be out," Merik said. "My family is totally all right with it."

Stories about Merik's issues with his school appeared on local news broadcasts and in The Arizona Republic.

Before the new school year this fall, Merik skipped a grade when he chose to transfer to the Arizona Agribusiness and Equine Center in Avondale.

The school is an independent high school district where students earn college-transferable credits while completing high school. Merik said he plans to go into information technology.

Merik said his new classmates are more mature and accepting and he's had no harassment issues since transferring.

But Merik wasn't done making his case with the Litchfield Elementary School District. In October he spoke and presented a petition asking for a change in policy. He also organized a demonstration outside the school district office.

When the school board adopted the Arizona School Board's policy language that Merik found faulty, he decided to take the fight to the next level.

So far, Merik said he's had no reply after contacting members of the state board with his request.

Merik calls his campaign the Bullying Project and he said he would like to work with other schools to address the issues.    -E

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More LGBT youth stories from 2011

  • The Maricopa Community Colleges Foundation introduced a fund drive for the Out and Up Scholarship for LGBT youth without family support. The first scholarship award was made this year.
  • 1n10 reached out to the West Valley, establishing a weekly program in Glendale, adding to its programming in Phoenix and Tempe.
  • The Life in My Shoes campaign was launched to promote a crisis line for LGBT youth. It's part of the Sources of Strength program, organized locally by Stacey Jay Cavaliere, prevention coordinator at 1n10.
  • A summit of East Valley gay-straight alliances was conducted in November in Mesa.
  • Loved ones of Native American gay youth got a new resource when the Valley chapter of Parents. Families & Friends of Lesbians and Gays (PFLAG) established a support group for them.    -E